It has nothing to do with you

Me being good to you has nothing to do with you. If I am good to you it is simply because I am a good person. Don’t try to feel special around me maybe you are not. Me being good to you has nothing to do with you. Don’t get it wrong

I have been in situations where people misinterpret me being friendly with flirting. It has brought me so many problems and at time I even decided to be mean to people just so the different is clear. At the end, I have stopped because being mean to people is not who I am. Me being good to you has nothing to do with you. Don’t get it wrong.

I am good to people not because they are good to me, simply because I am a good person. Don’t get it wrong.

Are you being yourself?

Till next Sunday

Be Yourself.

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11 thoughts on “It has nothing to do with you

  1. I really love this post. That’s so true, you must be yourself. If you are a good person, stay like that. Being good to others has nothing to do with them, also being bad to others has nothing to do with them. It’s just the personality that plays part in it. If people realize this, it will help them to be focus more on them and forget about how certain people treat them.

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    1. Exactly Adeline. People should understand that it has nothing to do with them. Even when people are bad to you it’s not your fault. Sometimes everyone must learn it has nothing to do with them. Thanks for reading and bringing in new insights 😊😘

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  2. Must be annoying to be mistaken for flirting when you are just being nice, but I feel like you being good or bad to a person can reflect them sometimes. Like if you know someone and feel like they deserve to be treated a certain way so you act nice or mean to them.

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  3. I understand it , I think that we should follow our true nature and purpose and if you are a good person , you simply need to ensure that your boundaries are set because being nice does not mean letting people cross our boundaries , I think you can be nice while self-respecting And communicate clearly your intentions and saying Something like : you know we are friends, right? but your story is interesting and I am glad to connect with you !It is an interesting thought !

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    1. Now I also agree when you say that people should understand it has Nothing to do with them . Indeed everyone sees a situation through the prism of his own experiences therefore someone being mean to you might not mean that he dislikes you but simply that his behavior reflect his experiences as a Mirror . So it might be a loss or break-up or frustrating situations that draws him to this point . The same goes with ignorance , someone might ignore you because he has experienced that and reproduces the same pattern . So , the response of internal compassion and external , non-jugement is truly the best way to deal with it in my opinion! Now it could also be that someone might be seeking love and as you are kind to them they think that ,it is what they need so they identify you as love but as I said once the key here is to said clear boundaries so that they understand that they should not identify you with love !

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