What I know for sure is that you will never be ready to enter in your twenties. I mean we know we are going to get there one day, some even have big plans for the day it will come but as for me, I was never ready to enter my twenties. I have come to realize:
1. We won’t be friends forever
I had countless friends, I can even say everyone knew my name or my face. I had a good list of guests whenever I wanted to throw a party. Those were the good old days, since I graduated from high school, my priorities changed and I lost touch with so many people 80% of my old “friends” are no longer my friends. I have only kept contacts with a few who understand who I am becoming and we are helping each other to reach our full potential. The smaller the circle the clear the vision
2. The meaning of freedom
Now that you are free you can do whatever the hell you want. I was waiting for this time to go where my parents didn’t want me to go. But the reality is even I am now free, I have to take care of my own life, my parents only guided me and now I have the choice to go big or go home.
3. Reconsider and adjust with your childhood dreams
I didn’t give up on my dreams I have adjust them to the woman I am becoming. I have had so many childhood dreams when I try to recall all of them, some were incredibly unrealistic, some others were pretty cool and some others were just: “girl what was wrong with you?” Do you do that too?
4. Being authentic is the way forward
You will never go wrong on this one. The more authentic you become, the more people can relate to you and better express themselves. Be yourself, love yourself. Not everyone will like you but it is okay, people who love your true self will stay. Join selflovies_society a community of amazing people on their journey to selflove, development and acceptance
5. It is no one fault if you fail but yours
It is your life, you are responsible for that, you and only you can choose what affect you and how it affects you. If you mess up your life is totally your fault
What lessons have you learnt in your twenties?
Till next Sunday