Waiting to be saved, to be loved, to be someone’s priority and waiting a lifetime to be told what to do or how to act is a complete waste of time. It is time to wake up from this long sleep and understand that NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
Self entitlement to a better life
“The belief that you deserve something or more despite not having done enough or anything to earn it.” The problem with many is that they believe they deserve to be given that award, to have their face on billboards, to have the perfect wife, perfect husband or to have a particular job. They believe they deserve to be financially taken care of by their partners, parents, uncles, aunts or rich siblings. Even more, they believe they deserve a better life without putting a single effort into that. NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
Your siblings success don’t define yours, your partner success does not define yours, your parents success don’t define yours. You need to understand that you are your own priority and nobody is thinking about strategies to fix your life on your behalf. There is no short cut for what you want for yourself, you will have to give your all and understand that you are your own priority and NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
Self entitlement to love
“The belief that you deserve to be loved more than anybody else, that your problems should be a top priority to everyone around you.” The problem is people believe they have the right to be loved without expressing it back, they believe they are superior and unique, deserve to be loved and take relationships for granted. NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
Nobody will fill in the love you need to give to yourself. It is hard to give love when you don’t love yourself. Moreover, just because you love someone doesn’t mean he or she will automatically love you the same way you do. I have read somewhere that: ” You are free to love whoever you want but remember they are also free to to do.” This can be true in all kind of relationships they are free to love whoever they want, your best friend can be best friend with someone else and only sees you as a simple friend. NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
REMEMBER: When you feel like you are entitled to your parents money and love, remember they are freely giving them to you not because you are entitled to but because THEY HAVE CHOSEN TO DO SO.
Are you being yourself
Till next Sunday