Upgrade your blogging game

Blogging can sometimes be overwhelming, it is not pink everyday. I have started this blog in August 2017 it has been a beautiful journey and I don't regret my choice, the mistakes I have made helped me to become the person I am today. For the full one year experience read A year of Being [...]

A date with myself

I was the kind of person who couldn't do anything by myself, especially going out and shopping because I have always done everything with my younger sister who is just a year younger than me. We have been doing everything together like twins for the past 20 years. Today she is living 11,230 Km away [...]

Sandy Land getaway

Last weekend, I had the opportunity to personally meet some of the selflovies_society for my first event: The Sandy Land getaway. To mark the first anniversary of the blog, I thought about planning a little getaway to one of the most Instagrammable place in South Africa: Sun City Resort in the North West province. I [...]

5 good reasons to plan your day

For the past 18 years I have lived according to my parents schedule for me. Basically, waking up, go to school till 2 PM, come back, TV, homework, bedtime and the next day was exactly the same. After high school, I had to start planning my days. Here are 5 good reasons you should plan [...]

This time next year

This time last year did you plan to be where you're at now? how was your life this time last year? This time last year, I couldn't imagine having an open journal where I share with complete strangers my joy, my experiences, my fears, my laughter and what I read. This time next year can [...]

5 things I learnt in my twenties

What I know for sure is that you will never be ready to enter in your twenties. I mean we know we are going to get there one day, some even have big plans for the day it will come but as for me, I was never ready to enter my twenties. I have come [...]